The law of love…inlaws

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Bare with me…..having to use my phone for internet right now……..

Joining a new family can be hard. When you marry into a family not only do you have to deal with the parents but the siblings as well, that’s allot of different personalities and belief on judgment. You fall in love you marry and then you can only hope that you will be accepted as family.

Once you marry, you become one with that person, you are literally a part of them , you put each other first, watch out for each other…you become blood in that family. The problem is that some times even though all that family should care about is that their son/daughter, brother/sister, found some one who loves them and will always do right by them, they find things about the mate to pick at, some thing is going to be wrong with them some how. They may think they are better than the new family member, religion issues, maybe they relied on their child or sibling to provide what was needed in some way and having a spouse puts a stop to that…it could be any reason they make up in their head.

Everyone wants to be accepted and be a part of the family, you aren’t water, you ARE blood..you are a part of them, holidays and special occasions, you need to be able to be around them and feel comfortable.

You aren’t, or don’t feel accepted…..
Just be who you are. Love your mate, and try to not let it get you down, cause you to feel bad. Truly, of they aren’t going to accept you, give you a chance. They don’t deserve the energy you will spend being upset over it. If they can’t just be happy that their child or sibling is truly loved and has some one to grow old with, are they worth you feeling hurt? No.

It is important to stay positive..remind yourself you are worthy of the best…remember that no matter what they or any one thinks or says or no matter how they or anyone treats you, you and your spouse are truly all that matters

If you are having difficulty staying positive, try some mind release…

I release any negative beliefs (that I am unworthy..or whatever you are thinking) maintaining any positive lessons I may have learned for my health and benefit. Thank you. 
Repeat 3 times, eyes focused on some part of the ceiling or on something high, hands folded together with pointer finger on the knuckle of the other pointer finger.
You can do this as much as you need or want and you can change up the issue you are dealing with..you can replace the belief you are experiencing with a feeling.

Love your spouse, put them first, and live YOUR lives, that is all that truly matters…..it is their loss in the end, for you ARE blood now…

Live in health, wealth, abundance and joy…